What Do You Really Want?

The question for the week for me is “What Do I Really Want?” I will ask myself this question as I awake in the morning, in every encounter, as I embark on a task, as I think of CSL Kaua’i and its future, and any other time that seems appropriate. I heard about a marriage […]

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The Self Knows Best

We bought a grill for our backyard. We were so excited to finally have one. It’s been sitting in the garage for almost a month unopened. Finally, we were having company and we had to open it and put it together. What we thought would be a simple deal turned into 100 screws, and several […]

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When It All Comes Up

So, here we are in our new beautiful home and the sh-t has hit the fan – literally. It began like this…  We have a big sunken tub and I’d been getting the nudge to use it. It was a strong nudge, not just based on the gift of giving myself a moment of nurturing, […]

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Victim or Authority?

This morning I woke up with a full heart. I was thinking of my father again and all that he went through during WWII. (See my blog from May 28). I was struck by the thought of forgiveness and how important it is in our lives. What do I define as forgiveness? I believe it […]

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How Do I Communicate?

This is the question for the week in James Mellon’s Mental Muscle Spiritual Boot Camp. It is a good one, too. What I am realizing as I move into my week of communication on many levels is this: if I have a clarity of intention and a lot of self-respect and mutual respect for the […]

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In Memory of Rocco Andriello

I was walking on the coastal path here on Kaua’i, and I thought that I would memorialize my father today on Memorial Day. He fought in WWII but on the Italian side. He deserted when he realized that what he was fighting for was not in alignment with what he truly believed. He had to […]

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From the Light

We talk about, read about, and some who have had NED’s have actually experienced it. They have seen the Light. They say we go to the Light when we die. Steve Job’s is said to have said, “Wow! Wow!” right before he passed on. He was looking at something. I saw my own mother-in-law do […]

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We Really Are Perfect

“Always behind the appearance, perfection is.” Ernest Holmes There is a Divine Perfection behind everything. If there weren’t, we could never heal of anything. We are never fixing anything when we heal; we are merely revealing what is already there, and it is a mental act that then shows up physically. I’m fixated on this […]

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